about work..
I don't think I'd ever be sending my children to day care. the teachers there are really insane, and we have a strict policy about no beating or scolding when parents are around, and at the end of everyday we tell them parents what a fabulous boy their sons have been the entire day. NOT true. This feels like a some concentration camp where the public are told that the prisoners are kept for research and whatnots but really, they're all getting tortured behind the walls. If I ever do open a kindergarten, it shall have the Cambodia concept; one small classroom, and one huge sandy courtyard. And caning will still be a largely accepted method. so children will not turn into whiny, weak, dissrespectful little brats. But they're still cute little brats, hoho.
about family..
My cousin and Aunt came from Japan for a couple days last week, and I was asking her if she found it difficult to see her husband (who works here in Singapore) only once a month or so. She laughed. Apparently it's awesome, and she tells me that the housewives back in Japan are all really envious of her. You can have your own life, you'd miss him more, and he'll annoy you less! haha, guess absence really makes the heart grow fonder. I then asked her how about the trust, and did she really trust him to be alone here? she said she'd just have to close one eye. strange how even when they don't see each other often, their marriage seems perfect (but maybe it's not, I don't really know), yet my other aunts can't seem to keep their families together even when they're all here at the same time. Maybe being apart has its benefits, you can think clearer, you know what you want, how you feel, you can see the bigger picture, and you'd be able to see what's important and real and what you have to do. or maybe sometimes people just make mistakes, oh well.
about friends..
I was watching this show, and I think it has put into words how I feel about some friends. There are just some friends whom you keep away from your usual clique of people, because you'd want to feel like it's something special to you, that is not 'shared'. And with this friend, or more, you can sort of escape from your usual life, feel safe, and you finally not have to talk about other people, but keepings things that are about the two of you. And I'm pretty sure I'm still talking about friends here. I definitely feel like that around some people.
I don't think I'd ever be sending my children to day care. the teachers there are really insane, and we have a strict policy about no beating or scolding when parents are around, and at the end of everyday we tell them parents what a fabulous boy their sons have been the entire day. NOT true. This feels like a some concentration camp where the public are told that the prisoners are kept for research and whatnots but really, they're all getting tortured behind the walls. If I ever do open a kindergarten, it shall have the Cambodia concept; one small classroom, and one huge sandy courtyard. And caning will still be a largely accepted method. so children will not turn into whiny, weak, dissrespectful little brats. But they're still cute little brats, hoho.
about family..
My cousin and Aunt came from Japan for a couple days last week, and I was asking her if she found it difficult to see her husband (who works here in Singapore) only once a month or so. She laughed. Apparently it's awesome, and she tells me that the housewives back in Japan are all really envious of her. You can have your own life, you'd miss him more, and he'll annoy you less! haha, guess absence really makes the heart grow fonder. I then asked her how about the trust, and did she really trust him to be alone here? she said she'd just have to close one eye. strange how even when they don't see each other often, their marriage seems perfect (but maybe it's not, I don't really know), yet my other aunts can't seem to keep their families together even when they're all here at the same time. Maybe being apart has its benefits, you can think clearer, you know what you want, how you feel, you can see the bigger picture, and you'd be able to see what's important and real and what you have to do. or maybe sometimes people just make mistakes, oh well.
about friends..
I was watching this show, and I think it has put into words how I feel about some friends. There are just some friends whom you keep away from your usual clique of people, because you'd want to feel like it's something special to you, that is not 'shared'. And with this friend, or more, you can sort of escape from your usual life, feel safe, and you finally not have to talk about other people, but keepings things that are about the two of you. And I'm pretty sure I'm still talking about friends here. I definitely feel like that around some people.
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